Tems talks about her perceptive on Love.
Tems, a Nigerian artist, has admitted that she has never truly fallen in love, but she hopes to do so in the future.
In a recent interview, Tems talked candidly about her definition of love. She made a point of noting that, in contrast to the cliché that “love is blind,” love is experienced with open eyes.
“I haven’t been in love. Loving someone for me is more of ‘I see you and I still want to be in your life. Even though you annoy me sometimes, I choose you and I choose you.’ I would like to be in love, to experience something deep but really real not blind. I don’t believe that love is blind, I think if you really love someone you’re loving them with your eyes open.” Tems explained.
The artist emphasised that when someone is truly in love, they continue to love even in the face of their partner’s weakness.
“If you’re blind that is not love. Love is when you’ve seen the person, their yansh is open and you’re like ‘I still want it. I still want that.’ I want someone to see my goods and be like, ‘Yeah, give me some of that,” she said.
Tems said she usually knows what men want from her when they ask her if she would be willing to meet and accommodate new people. She also mentioned a few qualities that she values.
“The thing is I know their intentions most of the time. They have one intention, like most guys. They’re very obvious, so how can I trust this conversation we’re having? It’s not even real. Everything you say is fake. Once I see that I’m like ‘Omo.’ I have things that I’m looking for. You have to be emotionally intelligent, very funny and spiritually adept, inclined and mature. But to boys who like me, show me,” said Tems.
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