“Selecting partners for us won’t go well” -Skitmaker Nasboi advises parents

Singer and Skitmaker Nasboi has stated that parents can only advise when it comes to their children choosing a spouse and for him, he can marry the lady he loves without getting his parents’ permission.
In a recent interview, the musician recently discussed why he would still get Married even if his mother rejected the woman.
He began by stating that he could only receive advice from his parents due to their intertribal marriage.
The host asked, “Would you marry who your parents do not accept?”
“Yes, I would,” he said. “I think I’ve had this conversation before and they wanted to kill me. My mum is not a Yoruba woman. She’s from Warri and she’s a Christian. Meanwhile, my dad is Yoruba and Muslim. You see it looks like something impossible right? Yet it happened.”
He continued, “So I always tell my mum that if she feels like she has trained me well enough she doesn’t have to worry about my decisions. She can only advice because at the end of the day, it is I who would live with the person I marry, not her. So if she’s giving me happiness allow me marry her. That’s how I think about it.”
In the case in which the parents dislike their spouses, he emphasized the importance of the parents and children having open lines of communication.
The Skitmaker said, “I don’t think parents should be selective. They can advise, yes, they can see something they don’t like and tell me then I can find a way to straighten it out. Not that they’d say I should not marry her, because if I marry someone else who looks perfect to them, she may not be perfect for me,”.
“I’m sorry to say, but our parents would die at one point so I’m the one who’s going to continue with my happiness or sadness. So I’m of the opinion that if parents see what they don’t like in our partner, they should tell us. But selecting partners for us won’t go well,” he concluded.
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